I've been seeing and hearing a lot of foolishness regarding women. Notice I didn't specify any color of woman either. Don't you know that the female of the species is a gift from God to us? They carry our future generations in their bodies. Like Pac said "Since we all came from a woman, got our name from a woman, and our game from a woman. I wonder why we take from our women, why we rape our women, do we hate our women?" No man can tell me that women aren't essential to our existence. Even gay men reverence the women in their lives. It's heartbreaking to see the way women are treated by the men that they've given birth to.
Now the flipside of the coin is this, women have a responsibility to act like they deserve respect. Stop belittling yourself with twerk videos and provocative dress. Don't get me wrong, I don't judge a book by it's cover but, if the book reads itself to me why buy it? The whole "I don't need a man to do nothing for me" attitude doesn't make you look strong to men, it makes you seem unapproachable and in turn unattractive. I love love love strong women but one that compliments my own strength, not competes with it. Steve Harvey was a little off with telling you to ACT like a lady think like a man. How about BE a lady and you'll attract a man.
Now back to the fellas. How about we step up from real niggaz to gentlemen. Can we please act, dress, speak, and work like gentlemen?! If we don't show women what they are told they should be looking for, how will they ever break away from feeling they don't need us? Also please stop telling me there are no good women out here when you are acting as if they need to be completely perfect inside and out. We act like Marcus Graham from Boomerang, leaving a woman for something as small as corns on her feet. Our superficial point of view and ridiculous standards are crippling our women. How much can you say with your pants tighter than hers and them sagging past your ass? You look like one of her girlfriends man!!! Man up!!!!
All I can say is ladies, I love you. Let's both be better to each other.
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